The Gift & Opportunity of “No”

The Gift & Opportunity of “No”

What really happens when someone says no to our request? Often our minds will say that something, is not ok. The body tenses, and the voice in our heads tells us that we really should have kept our mouth shut and desires hidden. That we’ve done something wrong and...
From Relationship to Friendship

From Relationship to Friendship

Is it possible to be friends with former lovers and partners? When I speak about Conscious, or Intentional, Relationships, this is a question that often comes up, and is one I myself wonder about at times of transition. My short answer is, yes. At least that’s what...
The Illusion of Normal

The Illusion of Normal

It seems as far as I can remember, I found myself desiring to fit in, to belong. For me, this often lead to me doing things that weren’t always truthful, wearing clothes that didn’t quite fit, and acting like someone who wasn’t quite me. As children, as soon as we...